The Truth About Picking-Up Girls And What You Can Do About It

For sure, most guys out there really want to know the most successful tactic for approaching and "picking up" women.

I'm sure that most have read almost every article there is scattering around the Internet and bookstores just to be able to learn that tactic to successfully woe women into going out.

But really, there is no single tactic proven to have successfully "pick up" women (notice the use of quotation marks). The most popular of these tactics are the scripted pick-up lines, opinion openers and cocky funny lines. What is wrong is that men are so focused in learning the tactics and not the overall strategy.

The truth is tactics has only short term effects as opposed to strategy. Men only ever want to learn about the right words but to tell the truth, there are no strings of words that will make her fall for your scripted tactics automatically.

Men are more focused in "picking up" women obviously only wanting to either lay her on bed or score points over other men.

The point is that men shouldn't think of approaching women as picking them up. It defeats the whole point of dating and getting to know each other if you are only interested in only one thing, more often a not so decent thought (sorry for being honest).

If you seriously like a woman, pick up tactics will only send her a signal that you only intend one thing no matter how good your real intentions were.

Another point is that if you really like a woman, you do not need tactics. What you need is to develop your own unique personality, your unique method of expressing that personality and the courage to become who you want to be. After all, other people won't like you if you don't like yourself.

What you really need to do is to focus on developing your personality, not only to being the kind of guy who women want but, in a deeper sense, to the kind of guy you want to be.

Pick up tactics only ever teach you to act like somebody else. If they are for somebody else, chances are they might not work for us.

Strategy, on the other hand, teaches you to be yourself so you'll discover for yourself how to approach women.

You won't need any tactics anymore to approach women because it will be innate and more genuine. That's the real art of approaching women.

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