How to Approach a Girl - A Few Simple Tips

There is no real art to approaching a girl but there are probably a few things that you don't want to do. In this article I am going to give you a few tips on how to approach a girl that have worked for me and I know will work for you. Coupled with the tips in my other articles you will be picking up girls with ease and wonder why you weren't doing it before.

The first thing you will need to do is to consider where you are. If you are in a church and spot a girl you like you would be a fool to charge at her like a bull at a gate and expect to pick her up. Perhaps if you quietly approached her after the service and introduced yourself then that might be appropriate. If you are a regular church goer then you might have seen her there a few times in the past and approaching her outside and introducing yourself would not be out of place. Simply walk up and say hello. Tell her you have seen her recently attending church and away you go with the conversation.

Approaching a girl in a night club on the other hand is a lot different. Girls expect guys to try and pick them up there; otherwise they would not spend hours getting ready to look their best. But you still need to be a little different to the other guys in the club. Try and see if you can catch her eye and smile at her. If she smiles back then it might be time to go and say hello. You don't need any fancy or cheesy pick up lines just introduce yourself and tell her that you saw from across the room and had to say hello to her.

When you do see a girl you like and you feel it is the time to approach her you must do it with confidence. Stand up straight and tall and walk up to her with purpose. When you are close to her smile and say hello. Put your hand out with purpose and introduce yourself and see what happens. If she is not interested for whatever reason, don't take it personally and move on. Look around the room and seek out your next target.

Even though you have not been successful that doesn't mean you have been rejected. Remember the girl you tried with could be married, she might prefer other girls or she might simply just not be looking for someone at that time.

If the girl you struck out with is with other girls and you are attracted to one of them why not repeat the procedure with one of those girls. Be confident and just introduce yourself. I would probably do that at the outset regardless as this will cover you for this eventuality and shows you as nice guy anyway.

If you really want to know how to approach a girl then think about what would get you interested. Don't scare her off by being to full on to early and be a little subtle depending on the environment.

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