There are plenty of guys who think that they are experts at "picking up" a girl, but in reality are total failures at it. Generally girls don't like being "picked up" by "pick up artists". There are subtle, finer ways of actually getting a girl to go out with you.
Here are seven tips you can follow to have a higher success rate when it comes to picking up girls.
Relax. Don't fidget and fumble around her. If you do that, it will just show her that you are overanxious and basically insecure. A girl likes to see a young confident man!
Don't "hit" on her the very moment you meet her. Give her time to get used to the idea that you are the ideal person she should go out with. Take time to "woo" her and make her feel special and desirable.
Take care about your appearance. If you have been working out - it will show and no girl can resist a guy who has a terrific body. If you haven't then you can make up by wearing cool and attractive clothes etc.
Be yourself. Don't be boring and predictable. Being original will help your image a great deal.
Don't give her empty compliments. If the girl is pretty, then she is probably used to compliments like "you've got beautiful hair, eyes etc" Instead compliment her on her taste for dressing, her choice of music etc.
Maintain eye contact. A girl does not appreciate a boy who ogles at her "breasts" or "cleavage" as soon as they meet! Get her to trust you.
If you seem to hit it off, then ask for her telephone number. This will convey the message that you intend keeping in touch. A special nickname like "honey" or "sweetie" will make it more special, and when you do call her or message her again, you could begin with "Sweetie...it's me!"
If you follow the above mentioned tips, you can be sure that no girl would be able to resist you! Remember, a guy who is self-confident and trustworthy will be successful every time!
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